Settling Into the Sandbox

An update for wondering minds. Brian arrived safely in Kuwait and has been able to call twice to check in. Not able to give dates and exact places over the phone he said during out last conversation two days ago that next time I hear from him he'll be at his permanent post in Iraq.

A little tip -if you feel like sending a package to a soldier you will get a $2 discount on the new flat rate boxes (12x12x5 1/2.) Pretty neat! Brian has always said he doesn't need anything sent to him (they have stores on post where they can get nearly anything they could possibly want) but it's still fun to send things. I do recommend sending items that you'd be fine having passed along to the next soldier since it's nearly impossible to mail packages home and they have no space to bring things back in the bags they packed.

Also, if you have kids writing letters to soldiers PLEASE proof read them for inappropriate comments and questions. Happy thoughts are best. Things like, "I bet you really miss your family," "Do you get scared when the bad guys try to kill you?," and "Don't you feel sad about all the people that die?" are not quite morale boosting, if you know what I mean. Though pictures kids draw can be quite amusing to the guys, please also use discretion filtering what gets sent their way. Have kids write jokes or draw pictures about where they live and their favorite things or what they want to be when they grow up. Genuine communication and the unassuming hearts of children are always refreshing.

Speaking of children, Wilder and I are visiting my sister and her family in Escondido and our mom is visiting for the Easter week. It is always eventful here with 5 of their children (and the 6th on the way) and filled to overflowing with joy and love. I have never seen such a perfect picture of what family should be. So full of acceptance, happiness, exuberance, tenderness and life. You can see the enjoyment Crystal and George receive from being together as a couple and as a family. They discipline in love, they speak understanding, they meet each child's individual needs, and their love multiplies as their family grows. It is a miracle to behold (even if I do have to retreat to the guest quarters to recharge my battery with quiet time.) I'm so happy we're here and able to share this very special holiday with my mother, my sister and her wonderful family!

More pictures coming soon! -the camera's in the guest room and Wilder's napping; I'd rather not disturb him...

Many blessings to you and your family during this beautiful season of new and abundant life!